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What to do if you
are being harassed:
- Don't blame yourself,
or ignore the problem.
Many people try to ignore the harassment, hoping that it will
go away. However, this usually does not work. Often times harassers
take the lack of response as permission to continue the behavior.
- Talk to a friend
or someone whom you trust about what you are feeling.
- Tell or write,
the person who is harassing you to stop. It is important that
you let them know that you don't like what they're doing.
If possible, ask the individual who is doing the harassing
to stop either verbally or in writing. It is important to let
the person know that you don't like what he/she is doing. If
this is not possible ask for help.
- Keep written, dated
records of your experiences: time, places, names
- Ask for help; you
are not alone.
At times, individuals are hesitant to report harassment because
they fear retaliation, or being labeled a problem maker. The
University of Hawai'i, has a non-retaliation policy to protect
anyone filing an informal or formal complaint, serving as a
witness or participating in any manner in a complaint resolution
process or investigation.
- Don't accept sexual
harassment as the "way things are." You do not have
to endure abuse!
If you are not sure that the behavior rises
to the level of harassment, come and talk with the Gender Equity
Counselor. We can sit down and talk about your situation and decide
how best to proceed. If appropriate you will be referred to other
resources on campus. For example, if you are experiencing feelings
of self-doubt or distress you could contact:
Complaint
Procedures Timeline:
- Informal complaint
In many cases, informal procedures are effective in stopping
sexual harassment. This option is open to any individual at
the University, who is willing to identify themselves and the
alleged harasser, and who wishes to seek a mutually agreeable
resolution. Informal actions include holding workshops for the
department, distributing written information, counseling the
offender, mediating between the two parties, and other preventive
measures. The Gender Equity Counselor can meet with you to identify
the best strategy for your situation.
Informal Procedure:
- You must be willing
to identify yourself and the respondent.
- Contact any of the
following:
- Gender
Equity Counselor
- Dean
of Students Office
- EEO/AA
Office
- You will
be asked to describe your situation and the resolution you
are seeking. You may be asked to fill out a complaint form.
- Examples of informal
resolutions include:
- Obtaining
your department's commitment to host a sexual harassment
workshop
- Privately
counseling the Respondent on University's Policy
- A
written resolution signed by both parties to the complaint
- Arranging
a mediation session with a professional facilitator
Check
here for complete details on the Sexual Harassment Complaint
Procedure
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